You Can Change Everything: A Love Letter to the Woman Ready for More
To the woman who feels exhausted down to her soul…
To the woman who did everything right—got the job, raised the kids, followed the rules—and still wonders, "Why am I not happy?"
This is for you.
I see you. I’ve been you.
I spent years performing the perfect life. I gave everything to everyone else—my time, my energy, my dreams—hoping that eventually, happiness would find me. But the truth was brutal and liberating: I didn’t need to find happiness. I needed to choose myself.
If You’re Escaping Your Life, You’re Not Living in Alignment
Let’s get honest. If you live for the weekend, the next vacation, the glass of wine at the end of a long day—you’re not broken. You’re misaligned. If joy and peace are missing from your daily life, something is off. And no amount of beach getaways or retail therapy can fix what only truth can heal.
I used to fantasize about sitting on a beach alone with no one needing anything from me. That wasn’t rest—it was desperation. Because when we’re constantly abandoning our needs for everyone else, we don’t need a vacation—we need a revolution.
Your Power Lies in Alignment
One of my spiritual gifts is seeing what’s aligned with someone’s highest self. It’s visceral for me—I feel it. I can see what someone needs to shift, what’s draining them, and what choices are leading them away from their truth. That clarity used to make me think something was wrong with me. But I now know it’s my calling.
And I’m here to help you see it too.
The choices we make shape our lives. If your choices are driven by fear, obligation, or the need for validation, they’re not coming from your highest self. Your power comes from choosing in alignment with love, faith, and truth—not survival.
You’ve Been Lied To
We’ve been conditioned—by society, religion, culture—to believe we have to earn our worth. That happiness is a reward for sacrifice. That hustle leads to success. But that’s not the whole story.
The wealthiest, most joyful people don’t get there by grinding harder. They get there by aligning. They delegate. They receive. They trust. You can, too.
But first—you have to break up with the lies that are holding you hostage.
Self-Expression is Liberation
Your path won’t look like anyone else’s, and that’s the point. You’re not here to live for approval. You’re here to experience the fullness of life. To change careers if you want. To leave the relationship. To pursue the dream. To come alive.
You are allowed to change your mind. You are allowed to want more. You don’t need permission to evolve. That’s not selfish—it’s sacred.
If someone calls you selfish for wanting joy, let them. Because what’s actually selfish is asking you to stay small for their comfort.
Start Where You Are. Start Now.
You don’t need a tragedy or breakdown to justify a new beginning. You just need a decision. A decision that you matter. A decision to root yourself in your truth and begin again. That’s where your power begins—with radical accountability.
If you want a different life, you have to choose it. And I promise you—it’s worth it.
Rooted: The Return to You
If this stirred something in your soul, I created something just for you. It’s called Rooted—a course to help you return to yourself, your voice, your truth, and your damn power.
You can join the waitlist now at guidedbyjamie.com.
Because the moment you become rooted in who you are, everything changes. Your confidence. Your clarity. Your ability to make decisions that honor your truth and your joy.
Let These Words Sink In
I’ll leave you with the affirmations I shared at the end of my episode. Say them. Breathe them in. Let them rewire your truth.
I am rooted in who I truly am.
I trust myself to make aligned decisions.
I am allowed to change.
I am safe to choose differently.
My joy is sacred.
I am not too late.
I am not too much.
I can create a life I love.
My power is rising.
I am the author of my life.
I give myself permission to change.
I no longer wait for validation.
I lead myself.
I don't need to be ready, I just need to be willing.
I am worthy of a life that feels good to live.
I release shame, guilt, and comparison. They are not mine.
I am lovable in my wholeness, not in my perfection.
I can begin again at any time.
My past does not define my future.
I am here to experience joy, beauty, and freedom.
Everything I need is already within me.
The life I desire is not a fantasy—it’s a frequency.
I am open to miracles.
I am aligned with expansion.
I am deeply rooted in who I am.
I am anchored in love, not fear.
You can change everything. Starting now.
Because silence is no longer an option.
With love and fire,
Jamie Shae
Founder of Guided by Jamie | Host of Something to Say